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Bad Guy Versus Nice Boy - Does Interest Have Anything To Do With Being A Bad Boy Versus A Nice Guy?
Fine, we have all watched that myth - that "nice guys" fail and the 'bad boys" appeal to women - but I don't think it is necessarily true. At least I don't believe it has anything to do with being a bad boy compared to a nice guy.
I feel there are other personality dimensions involved that possibly bad boys and nice guys have that are the establishing qualities of attraction.
Bad boys are often less shy, but in addition they are more confident in general than nice guys. I feel that it would be these characters that are attracting a woman not the aspect that a guy is bad.
I personally almost never use the "bad boy" method when attracting women, I am always a perfect gentleman. But, I am not an easy hook and women can tell that quickly when talking to me. I am a little reserved, I don't compliment women when I first meet them or tell them how attractive they are, and most women don't have a clue as to whether I am keen on them or just being polite.
That is what sets me beyond a "nice guy". Women see me as a good gentleman but haven't a clue if I am interested in them or not. Women -especially very attractive women - enjoy that. They are sick and tired of talking to men who flatter them.
Girls like guys who are alluring and unique. Attractive girls don't find guys who tell them how beautiful they are to be exceptional. But a guy who has an entertaining conversation with them without stating a word about their good looks verbally or non-verbally - now that is both attractive and unique to a beautiful girl.
Also do not forget that women have different qualities. And what one thinks is interesting and unique varies from personality to personality. A not-so-good-looking lady may find it totally interesting and unique to be told how pretty she is by a man. A woman who grows up in a culture of perfect gentlemen, might very well choose a guy who talks a little bad and naughty to be interesting and special. A woman who knows nothing but rough and ignorant men, would find a gentlemen to be an unusual interesting and unique find.
You see irrespective of what you are like there is somebody for you. But you have to identify who that someone would be and then try to maximize how you would meet women like that. So irrespective of if you are a bad guy or a nice guy, put yourself in a state where you are interesting and special to the women you come across and you will be victorious.
One of the toughest things to learn in life is that irrespective of what you are like there is always someone who is perfectly well-matched to you. Even if you are unexciting there are women who are completely compatible with that. Not every one likes to meet and hook up with the life of the celebration.
The problem is people who don't acknowledge themselves for who they are, attempt to act differently and they are not being true, so they don't entice anyone. Now if you just accept yourself for who you are and act the way you basically are, you will notice that there are people who will embrace you for who you are. So don't worry about whether you are unexciting or not, just be yourself. Sooner or later you will see a girl who will accept you for who you are.
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